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Staying fit as a busy dad: a plan that survives real life
Every busy dad I coach has tried the plan that needs an hour a day. It works for about three weeks, until a kid gets sick or a deadline lands. Then it falls apart and he feels like he failed. He didn't. The plan did.
Dai Manuel · Coach Moose · Vancouver
Build for your worst week, not your best
A plan that only works when life is calm is not a plan. Start with what you can do on your worst week: fifteen minutes of movement, most days. That is the base from the Whole Life Fitness Manifesto, and it is enough to keep momentum when everything else goes sideways.
On good weeks you add. On bad weeks you hold the base. You never go back to zero, which is what kills most attempts.
What the fifteen minutes looks like
Two or three days a week, make it strength: squats, push-ups, rows, carries, whatever you have. The other days, walk briskly or ride. Health guidelines ask adults for about 150 minutes of moderate activity a week plus two days of strength work. Fifteen to thirty minutes a day gets you there.
Put it at the same time each day. For most dads that is before the house wakes up or straight after the kids go down. Same time, same place, less deciding.
Let the family be part of it
Some of your movement can happen with your kids. Walks, bike rides, a game in the park. It counts, and they learn that looking after yourself is normal.
The goal is not a six-pack by summer. It is being the dad who can still get down on the floor and play at sixty.
Common questions
- How many days a week should a busy dad train?
- Aim to move most days and do strength work two or three of them. Consistency over months matters far more than any single week.
- Is 15 minutes of exercise enough?
- It is enough to build the habit and meaningfully improve health, especially if some of it is strength work. You can build up from there when life allows.
- Should I train in the morning or evening?
- Whenever you will actually do it. For most fathers that is early morning, before the day can take the time away.
Sources
- Canadian 24-Hour Movement Guidelines for Adults
- The Whole Life Fitness Manifesto, Dai Manuel