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How do I get back in shape after years off?

Short answer

Start slowly with walking, if you’re able, and add daily activity gradually rather than jumping into a brutal workout routine. Choose something you enjoy, whether that’s a class, cycling or gym training. Stay consistent, work within your current level to avoid injury, and focus on how your body functions and feels, not just weight loss.

By Dai Manuel, CrossFit L2, HYROX L2, Precision Nutrition, NeuroChange Practitioner. Last reviewed 26 September 2026.

Who this is for

This is for dads getting back into fitness after years away, starting from their current ability rather than their old routine. This is coaching context, not diagnosis or medical advice; take concerning symptoms, injuries or medical decisions about exercise to a qualified professional.

How do I start getting back in shape?

Start slowly with walking, if you’re able, and build daily activity gradually. You don’t need a brutal workout routine to get underway. Walk a little, take the stairs if they’re within your ability, or park a little farther from work.

Keep it simple. The starting point is what you can do now, not what you used to do years ago. Work within that level rather than jumping into something too demanding. Start moving while you begin putting your plan together.

What exercise should I choose?

Choose something you actually enjoy. That could be walking, cycling, a class or gym training. If you like socialising while you train, a class may suit you. The archive also points to outdoor and virtual options.

You don’t have to begin with everything at once. Add activity incrementally and keep showing up. Consistency matters more here than making your comeback as hard as possible. Pick the activity you want to return to, not just the one that sounds toughest.

What should I focus on besides weight loss?

Pay attention to how your body functions and feels, not just what you weigh or how you look. A particular body shape isn’t the only measure of fitness.

Make daily movement and consistency the focus. Getting back in shape is about supporting your ability to move through life, not simply chasing a different photo.

Common questions

Is walking a reasonable place to start?
Yes, if you’re able. Start with walking and add daily activity gradually rather than jumping straight into demanding workouts.
Do I need to join a gym?
No. Walking, cycling, classes and gym training are all options; choose something you enjoy and can keep returning to.
Should weight loss be my main measure of progress?
Not your only measure. Focus on how your body functions and feels as well as staying consistent with activity.

Sources

  1. Shaping Resilience and Transformation: Tommy Europe's Journey from CFL Stardom to Fitness Mastery
  2. Shaping Resilience and Transformation: Tommy Europe's Journey from CFL Stardom to Fitness Mastery
  3. Chapter 1: How would you define whole life fitness?

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Episodes (23)

  • Episode · jump to 21:04

    Shaping Resilience and Transformation: Tommy Europe's Journey from CFL Stardom to Fitness Mastery

    You're going to go to that class, you're going to go down, go work out, go for a walk, do something, and just as you go, many of your top agency don't jump at that something's too fast, because the surefire way of you starting on something is you starting doing something that other than your level getting hurt, and that's why I didn't want to do that. So start slow, start mentally. You don't want to get hurt. You don't have to get. Choose what you want to do. So if you like classes, if you like socializing while you're training, join a class where there's some gym, many center outdoors, whatever the case may be. There's lots of virtual options as well.
  • Episode · jump to 7:49

    Chapter 2: Transforming Struggles into Strength: The Power of Finding Your 'Why'

    I started slowly with Walking Daily, then Mountain Biking. I strapped on my cassette player yeah, I know dating myself again with a tape playing on Endless Loop A went to side B, wynch went back to side A, and so on. I'd ride until I had exhausted both the tape and myself. Only then would I ride. I had more and more daily activity, incrementally, eventually joining the gym. Over 14 months, nearly 18 months, I was transformed. This time, adolescence itself was on my side as I shot over a 6'1" it's a big growth. Sport that definitely helped me burn more calories. My weight didn't change that much just to qualify that, but I did see body fat melt away as new lean muscle mass appeared. Now with a better understanding of the science and biology of health, I know that my physical changes came from a combination of cardiovascular and resistance training.
  • Episode · jump to 19:35

    Shaping Resilience and Transformation: Tommy Europe's Journey from CFL Stardom to Fitness Mastery

    Right, like it's very specific and I know that you are so inspiring for those that are just getting started, because I know the last 10 pounds, especially in your boot camps, you attracted a certain demographic because you were very inspiring but you also gave people belief in themselves and that is powerful. And so for the listeners that are there, they're on the edge and maybe just getting started or wanting to get started, like well, it'd be some of the best advice you can impart for them today, just around health and fitness. And then getting back to that, Don't make it harder than it is. Start by walking, something you know that most people can do unless they're injured or disabled Walking, walk some stairs, walk a little bit, park a little bit further from work Just little things to get you underway. And as you're doing that, start to formulate your plan.
  • Episode · jump to 18:15

    Shaping Resilience and Transformation: Tommy Europe's Journey from CFL Stardom to Fitness Mastery

    So in our demographic where you and I are, and I know that it's a very interesting time of life between those sort of two poles right between 35 to 55, because a lot of your habits that you have during that 20 years are the habits that either serve you well as you head into the second half of life or dive into the second half of life, or doesn't serve you well. Right, like it's very specific and I know that you are so inspiring for those that are just getting started, because I know the last 10 pounds, especially in your boot camps, you attracted a certain demographic because you were very inspiring but you also gave people belief in themselves and that is powerful.
  • Episode

    Chapter 1: How would you define whole life fitness?

    Above all, we are told that achieving a particular body shape will bring us happiness and fulfillment. My answer to all this Garbage Most people believe in fitness are driven by vanities. Many of us feel pressure to attain a certain body type or to achieve top athletic performance. Much of our framework is built on the preconceived notion that having a lean or muscular body is an indicator, the only indicator, of fitness. But appearances, however cliche this may sound, really are only skin deep. Approach fitness in this way and you're following a band-aid approach to wellness that is simply unsustainable.
  • Episode · jump to 3:10

    Embracing Health After 40: Philip Pape's Guide to Fitness, Food Freedom, and Mindful Living

    I never understood why this worked that way. Why is my trainer telling me to eat a lot of protein? Why is my trainer asking me to do deadlifts, whatever? Ultimately, a powerlifter who listened to my show, who happened to be a co-worker, she came on as a guest and after the show was done, she said Philip, I need a new nutrition coach because the one I have is okay, but I never understand why I'm doing what I'm doing and you make it so clear. Please help me get that clarity. We started working together and I got my certification, and the rest is history. Dude, I love that.
  • Episode · jump to 3:52

    Chapter 1: How would you define whole life fitness?

    What's that you ever heard of a burpee? Trust me, you got some stuff to look forward to. Now we may take these daily actions for granted, but what if we don't look after ourselves or we consider our fitness on a daily basis? Our muscles and bones will deteriorate with age and our mobility will be restricted, compromising even the simplest movements. After all, there is a truth to the old adage Use it or lose it. That is, losing the ability to move your body unassisted results in a serious downturn in your quality of life. Think about it. We all know the importance of investing and saving for our future financial security, but what daily investments do we make into our health? Will a functional fitness focus program prove your progress Absolutely? Is that the ultimate end goal? No, functional fitness energizes you in every moment of your life.
  • Episode · jump to 1:39

    Embracing Health After 40: Philip Pape's Guide to Fitness, Food Freedom, and Mindful Living

    Just sort of take it away. I think it's a great place for us to start. Yeah, definitely started being a student because I couldn't have ever claimed to want to be a teacher until I knew the foundations. A combination of curiosity and frustration can really drive a person being frustrated for years and years and years with my lack of results and then being constantly curious about well, if it's not working, something's got to work. It's not working, there's got to be something out there. As I just mentioned, you've seen others achieve something in their 50s. When I was 35, thinking okay, it's possible, physically, rationally, scientifically which is where my mind goes as an engineer led me to just keep searching, keep searching.

Articles (7)

  • Article · How long it really takes to get back in shape

    How long it really takes to get back in shape

    And why most timelines lie to you. Thirty years of coaching, one cohort of twenty-three men, and every number I have, including the ones that do not flatter me. FIG. 01 The unglamorous part nobody photographs. The honest answer to how long it takes to get back in shape is this: you will feel different in about two weeks, you will be measurably stronger in about six, and you will look different somewhere between weeks eight and twelve. If you are over forty and you have been out of it for years, put those numbers at the slower end and stop reading the ones that promise otherwise. Every "six week transformation" you have seen is measuring the wrong thing at the wrong time. It measures the photo. The photo is the last thing to change. That gap, between the day the work starts paying and the day it becomes visible, is where almost every man I have coached has quit.
  • Article · If you are starting again on Monday

    How long it really takes to get back in shape

    Six numbers, ten minutes. You cannot argue with them in week seven and they will keep you honest in week two when nothing looks different. Then pick the smallest week you will actually repeat. Three sessions, a protein target, a step target, and a bedtime. Repeat it for sixty days. Retest. That is the whole method, and it is boring on purpose. How long does it take to get back in shape? Most men who train three to four times a week feel different within two weeks, feel stronger within four to six weeks, and start to look different somewhere between weeks eight and twelve. Sixty days of honest consistency is enough to change your baseline. It is not enough to finish the job. How long does it take if you have not trained in years? Longer to look different, faster to feel different.
  • Article · A case study: sixty days, twenty-three men, every number

    How long it really takes to get back in shape

    T. held his sobriety through the whole sixty days and tracked his own biometrics consistently for the first time in his life. Randall T. came out of hernia surgery faster than his surgeon expected, stayed on with me, and twenty-one months later his body fat is eight point one percent at fifty-nine years old. That last one is the number worth staring at, because it took twenty-one months, not sixty days. Fifteen men rated the program at the end. Here is every score, not the average: five, seven, seven, eight, eight, eight, nine, nine, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten, ten. FIG. 03 Week three of the first cohort. Only thirty-four percent of that group completed every scheduled workout. Seven of the twenty-six ended up inactive. My own notes from week three say "system overload and confusion was a real thing still." So the real answer to how long it takes is not a number of weeks.
  • Article · No longer fat, sick and nearly dead

    No longer fat, sick and nearly dead

    Seven years ago I suffered a bad bout of Excusitis. I was a fitness professional earning a living helping people overcome their excuses. What a hypocrite, right? Originally published on LinkedIn on 5 November 2015 and republished here with light editing only. This is the earliest surviving written record of the thirty minutes a day framework , which appears in full in the closing paragraphs. FIG. 01 November 2015. The earliest written record of the two percent framework. Most people have had the experience of starting a new fitness plan, only to abandon it completely or revert back to their old habits. Name one person who has not made working out part of their New Year's resolutions at some point in their lives. We often start with tons of enthusiasm, launching head-on into a brutal workout routine.
  • Article · Why starting over keeps failing after 40

    Why starting over keeps failing after 40

    Ask a man over 40 how many times he has started again and he will usually laugh before he answers. Five. Six. He owns the equipment. He knows what to do. FIG. 01 A man who gets six weeks in and stops is telling you about the fuel, not the engine. Ask a man over 40 how many times he has started again and he will usually laugh before he answers. Five. Six. He has lost the same fifteen pounds three times. He owns the equipment. He knows what to do. He has proven, repeatedly, that he can do it for six weeks. That last part is the interesting part, and it is the reason I do not believe this is a discipline problem. A man who cannot do something never gets six weeks in. A man who gets six weeks in and then stops is telling you something about the fuel, not the engine. Because the thing that got you started is not a thing that can keep you going.
  • Article · The DadBody project: what it is, who it is for

    The DadBody project: what it is, who it is for

    In June 2019 I published a post looking for four dads over 40 to beta-test an idea. Seven years later that idea is the whole of my working life. This is the full version: where it came from, what it actually involves, and the promises it refuses to make. FIG. 01 The work is small and repeated. That is the whole trick. Every man in this work arrived the same way. Successful at his job, good at being a dad, present at the things that matter, and quietly falling apart in the one area nobody could see from the outside. He had usually tried to fix it a few times. A gym membership in January. A diet that lasted until the first work trip. A burst of running that ended when his knee or his calendar gave out. Each attempt confirmed the same story: I know what to do, I just cannot make it stick. That story is wrong, and the DadBody project exists to prove it. He does not lack knowledge.
  • Article · Quality of life far outweighs quantity of life

    Quality of life far outweighs quantity of life

    People are obsessed with living forever. Meanwhile we are getting more ailments from poor fitness and lost mobility as we age. Originally published on LinkedIn on 2 February 2017, itself republishing an article written for Fresh Magazine, and reproduced here with light editing only. FIG. 01 FIG. 01 / Use it or lose it, and the losing is quiet. Generally speaking, I seem to be reading more and more about longevity these days. It would seem that people are obsessed with the idea of living forever. And granted, medical science is doing a wonderful job of allowing us to live longer and longer. However, as a whole, we are also experiencing more and more ailments as a result of decrepitude, poor physical fitness and lack of mobility as we age. It is about time for an intervention and a call to help people get back to basics. Envision this.

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    Twelve men. Sixty days. Everything measured.

    DadBody 28 is the shorter option if you would rather not wait. Still not answered? Read every question or message me directly and you get me, not an assistant. One hundred fifty episodes on movement, stillness, reading, nutrition, mindset and recovery. Search the transcripts or listen from the archive. Browse episodes Start here: the whole library Apply for one of twelve 0 of 12 places filled Every result above is a real man who will tell you about it himself. Named with permission, and shortened at their request.
  • Page · What men ask before they start

    Twenty-eight days. Four habits. Back in motion.

    Tell me honestly where you are starting from. Can I do DadBody 28 from outside Vancouver? Yes. It runs online, with coaching scheduled Vancouver time. Still not answered? Read every question or message me directly and you get me, not an assistant.

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